Normally I don’t share my thoughts here. I have another journal with limited people to view it for thoughts/reflection.
However, I felt people should hear this and come to understand the toxicity grudges have.
I have been through very abusive, dire, life threatening circumstances. Details are not needed, but just know there was a few years I was honestly playing with fire. A few times I came close to death by the hands of others.
I don’t hold grudges towards those people. I simply cut them out of my life and thoughts. Of course it took a lot of self discovery to let go of vivid nightmares.
But grudges are toxic. They do nothing but make one miserable. They don’t allow anyone to live life to it’s full potential.
Grudges are the reason the world is at war.
Please reconsider when you hold a grudge. It not only is toxic, but immature and one will lose respect from others in their life. If not right away, but eventually.
Grudges create misery.
Misery doesn’t need to love company.